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Tips

Lube Tips

Tip 1

Keep lube stashed in various places not just your bedroom, small packets in your car, purse, backpack or desk can come in handy.

Tip 2

If your not a fan of cold lube, try warming it up by placing the bottle near a light bulb for a few minutes. If its last minute rubbing it in between your hands can help a little.

Tip 3

No Lubricant that's been in your bottom should be used in your vagina, this will stop any infections from occurring.

Tip 4

A good lube meant for sex is not a luxury, rather a important ingredient for satisfying sex.

Cleaning Tips

Tip 1

Thoroughly clean all toys. Any toys that break the skin should not be shared. This is as a protection from blood borne diseases such as hepatitis.

Tip 2

Maintain your toys by storing them carefully and cleaning them gently when needed.

Tip 3

After use wash and wipe down your vibrator with warm soapy water rinse and air dry. Don't get the mechanical parts wet or no more fun!

Tip 4

Use a condom or toy cover on soft plastic vibrators for easier clean up. It also allows you to put a barrier between you and the material the vibe is made from.

Tip 5

Don't share your toy unless its made from silicone

Tip 6

Store Vibrators in separate cases in your drawer to prevent them absorbing into one another.

Tip 7

An anal douche squirts water into the rectum to flush out any traces of your last bowel movement. Less elaborate than a full enema but more complete than a soapy finger in the shower. It's a fastidious anal-sex lover's dream accessory. Fill and empty the rectum a couple of times with warm water for mess free fun. 

Life Tips

Tip 1

Sexual desire is a natural part of human experience and denying ourselves the pleasure of satisfying sex is unnecessary.

Tip 2

There is no right or wrong way to have an orgasm

Tip 3

Remember you have nothing to lose and everything to gain from becoming the best masturbator you can be.

Tip 4

To find the G-spot, insert a finger or fingers 2–3 inches into the vagina and press toward the pubic bone with a rhythmic “come 'ere” motion.

Tip 5

Some folks prefer indirect G-spot stimulation; try pressing down on your belly just above the pubic bone or applying pressure toward the belly button during anal play.

Tip 6

A full vagina may block ejaculation, so try pulling out toys, fingers and when you orgasm bear down.

Tip 7

Build up sexual energy slowly by getting close to orgasm, then backing away to intensify the climax. Give yourself enough time with your vibrator, your sweetheart, or both to reach new heights

Tip 8

Every parent knows that it can be challenging to maintain a thrilling sex life while raising kids.  If you don’t already have a lock on your bedroom door, buy one and install it.  Teach your kids that everyone deserves privacy.  Respect your kids’ privacy by knocking on the door before entering their bedroom, and teach them to give you the same courtesy

Tip 9

Make a going down on each other even hotter by adding a simple ingredient — eye contact!

Tip 10

Spontaneity and surprise keep a sexual relationship fresh and exciting! Shake up your routine by examining your sex life at present. Do you always have sex at the same time and in the same place? Do you dedicate a few hours to having sex, or do you always have a quickie? Try heating things up by exploring times, places, and activities you’ve never considered

Tip 11   

Reading erotica is a great way to expand your fantasy life. Because our society defines sex so narrowly, a lot of people have trouble imagining sexual possibilities beyond their current repertoire. Exploring erotica is a great tool for providing sexy inspiration in your own sex life. You may discover hot situations and activities you never imagined existed!

Anal Tips

Tip 1   

 

Spanking, kneading, stroking and squeezing the bum cheeks are nice, anal licking feels so good it has its own name rimming

Tip 2   

Spend a little time thinking of your bottom as a beautiful rosebud of pleasure because that is what it could be.

Tip 3   

Stay away from any sex products that promise to take away your anal sensitivity as you wont be able to tell if you are doing damage to yourself.

Tip 4   

Try Rubbing in tiny concentrated circles around the rim of your anus.

Tip 5   

Nothing on earth feels like a tongue on your anus.

Tip 6

For your anus softer materials are easier on sensitive tissue and will follow the natural curve of the a rectum. Bumps and ridges can feel good sliding in and out.

Vibe Tips

Tip 1

The reality is that vibrators help women come and coming is one of life's great pleasures.

Tip 2   

Store vibrator batteries separately as they may corrode your toy.

Tip 3   

A first vibrator purchase should be versatile with variable speeds.

Tip 4   

Freshen up your toy with new batteries if you find that it doesn't have the same kick before giving it up.

BDSM Tips

Tip 1   

Bondage and domination sex play are erotic encounters in which there is a deliberate exchange of power.

Tip 2    

Never let someone you don't trust tie you up.

TIP 3   

 

Want to practice flogging hang on to an old leather jacket on a door or chair and whip away.

Tip 4   

Role play is a good way to start experimenting with power and sensation play in your sex life.

Tip 5

The absence of sight heightens all our other senses. By introducing an eye mask into sensual play, the resulting lack of sight awakens a new range of sensations and feelings. That which begins with trust and ends in ecstasy.