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Ball Busting
Any form of genitorture applied to the testicles as by squeezing, impact or tight binding.
Ball Hood
A specific type of hood often without openings for the eyes or ears and sometimes containing integrated bladders designed to be inflated with air to press the hood tightly against the head, used as a means of rendering a person unable to hear, speak or see.
Bartholins Glands
Small glands adjacent to the vaginal opening. These glands provide some lubrication, but the actual function of the glands is unknown. The Bartholin's glands can become irritated or infected, resulting in swelling and pain. This unusual condition can be easily treated by a qualified medical professional.
Bastinado
Any form of pain play involving inflicting pain on the soles of the feet, often by striking, cropping, or whipping them.
Bat
A thin, flexible instrument used for striking, consisting of a rigid but flexible shaft wrapped or braided with leather or cloth, very similar to a crop but usually slightly shorter and with a wider leather striking tip.
Bears Paw
Gloves used for sensation play which have blunt metal spikes or dull hooks at the end of each fingertip.
Berkley Horse
A type of bondage furniture consisting of a padded bench with integrated restraints and a pair of arms to which a persons legs can be affixed. A person is bent over the berkley horse is designed so that it can be elevated, rotated or moved into any position and the arms to which the ankles are bound can be opened or closed.
Birch
An implement used for striking, consisting of a bundle of light, thin wooden rods, typically made of birch.
Bisexual
Having sexual or romantic attraction or behaviour directed towards some members of more than one sex. Also used: bi, and bi-sexual.
Bondage
Physical or symbolic containment or constriction of any part of the body as a part of erotic play; a sexual activity in which a person is bound while another disciplines or punishes them, often verbally and physically with spanking, flogging, or other such activities.
Bondage Belt
A belt used to restrain a person, which consists of a heavy band of leather or a similar material which can be strapped or locked about the waist and which has several attachment points to which the subjects wrists may be bound.
Bondage Bunny
A person who enjoys being tied or bound.
Bondage Mitten /Mitt
A fingerless mitten, often made of leather, canvas, heavy vinyl, PVC, or similar materials, which is placed over the hand and then fastened in place with integrated buckling or locking cuff. The bondage mitt holds the hand flat or balled up and prevents wearer from picking things up or make use of there hands.
Bootblacking
Polishing and spit-shining a pair of boots, sometimes as a gesture of submission, sometimes as a part of military style uniform play, sometimes to mark the beginning of a scene.
Box Tie
A specific form of bondage in which a person brings his or her arms together and grips each forearm with the opposite hand, and then ropes are brought around the forearms to tie them together. Often combined with ropes between the upper arms to prevent the bound person from slipping his/her arms sideways out of the tie.
Brat
A submissive who may refuse to obey a dominant's commands, tease or taunt the dominant, or engage in other activity intended to provoke a response, often a punishment response.
Bukkake
A sexual practice, originating in Japan, in which a very large number of men masturbate and ejaculate onto a person.
Bulbourethral Gland
Another term for Cowper's Glands.
Bullet Vibrator
A small, battery-operated vibrator resembling a large bullet or egg.
Butt Plug
A butt plug is an anal toy with a thin neck and a flared base, preventing it from slipping into the rectum. The bulge in the middle helps the butt plug stay in place, so your hands are free to pursue other pleasures. Once the widest point of the toy is past the guardian sphincters, they close around the neck of the plug and voila, the butt plug is plugged. Many people find the pressure pleasing and often the reflexes that close and open numerous times is the favourite. If you’re new to butt plugs you might want to choose a slimmer toy to start, and work up to those with a bigger bulge. If you’re more interested in the in-and-out motion, you probably want a thin anal dildo rather than a butt plug.
Butterfly Chair
A chair which contains two horizontal planks to which the legs can be secured, affixed to a pivot such that the legs of the secured person can be spread apart.
Butterfly Vibrator
A butterfly vibrator is attached to leg and waist straps, think underwear with a vibrator over your clitoris. Without having to hold the toy in place a woman can use her hands to touch other parts of her or her partner’s body. During intercourse, a hands-free vibe can be just the thing if your hands are needed to brace yourself or prop yourself up. Many woman have discovered the secret thrill of wearing a butterfly vibrator underneath clothing when out for a night on the town.
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